The Happiest Day in My Life



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When I think back to the happiest day in my life...this is it.  It's about five years ago on the farm.  Nora is pushing four.  I couldn't tell you what we did that day.  I didn't even know then that this was the happiest day of my life.  But it was.  I know that now.  That's the trouble with the happiest days of your life.  You can't tell that they are when you're in the middle of them, but when you look back, all the boredom or hunger or conflict dissolves and all that's left is this:  her arm reaching up around your neck and the light of her eyes that you hope no amount of tears will ever put out.

My sister told me she is practicing two things:  contentment and self-control.

I'm working on those, too.

Thank you and this will do.

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